You found someone you’re interested in and you want to see if they feel the same way about you, right? Perhaps it’s someone you work with at the office or a clerk at the local store. Maybe it’s the neighbor down the street or a friend you’ve had for a long time but only recently realized how you feel. Whatever the case, you need to engage in the secret art of flirtation and we’ve got some tips to get you into high gear!

Flirting is a two way street. The first tip we can give you is to make sure that both of you are heading in the same direction. This isn’t always easy to do. You need to understand how to flirt so that you can recognize it in others. Some find this really easy to do while others require a few flirting tips. Whatever your case, you should be giving and getting signals to ensure your on a path for success.

There should be a beginning and an end to your flirtation. If it drags on and on, it becomes a pattern for behavior that can easily be seen by the party your interested in as the way you communicate with others. Not only does this not get you any closer to your goal, but it could make you look like a habitual flirt. That isn’t a great impression when trying to initiate a new relationship.

Flirting is usually done best when it’s subtle. Coming right out and stating your interest is not flirtation. Mind you, it is the end goal of your efforts and should come at some point. In the beginning, though, you’re trying to convey interest while looking for something to tip you off to their feelings at the same time. Keep the direct questions for when you see your both headed in the same direction.

“Try talking about taking out the trash and see if you can make it sound like a bouquet of roses that you want to give to them.”

A great tip for flirting that you should know is that you can do it while talking about anything. You don’t need to tell someone how beautiful you think they are to get that point across. Use your voice as a tool. The way you say things, your inflections on words and the rate of your speech are all telling factors. You should practice by speaking out loud at home to get it down pat. You don’t want to sound like you’re having phone sex. If you notice that that’s what you sound like, switch gears and go in another direction. Try talking about taking out the trash and see if you can make it sound like a bouquet of roses that you want to give to them. If you can do it, you’re on the right path!

It’s also a good idea to practice in front of a mirror. Look at your face and see if you’re conveying an appropriate image for showing interest. Actors do this all the time and you’re heading for what could be one of the most important performances of your life. Are you maintaining eye contact? Are your eyes saying hello or trying to undress what they see? These are things to look for that will tip off your love interest as to what’s really on your mind.

Take these flirtation tips and practice your delivery. Showing interest isn’t always easy, but the more you attempt to hone your skills, the better you’ll become. There’s a great flirt in all of us if we are just willing to let them out!

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